A Tan Suit

Today Coach took this photo:

It has me quite obsessed with a tan jumpsuit. This particular jumpsuit was a treasure I found at my local Ross. It doesn’t need an iron. The details are great. It was perfect to throw on for church this morning and if I am being honest, the hardest part of this outfit was picking which gems to pair with it. The tan color goes great with all of my neutral Two Hidden Gems.

So I went on the hunt to find the exact suit that I could link.

I found this.

The price is slightly higher than I expected. I would consider this jumpsuit worth the price since you could wear it with so many different gems, but I wanted to find some different/ less expensive options. Again, real life over here.

I found this. I love the look. I love the price. I love it.

THIS. THIS is the BEST. I have linked it before and have many friends purchase it and tell me how much they love it. I am OBSESSED with the quality. The price? $32? Yes, please.

Again, the goal here is:

Comfort.

Goes with lots of different Two Hidden Gems.

No iron is a plus.

Can wear it on Saturday, Sunday, and to work.

RealLifeCoachsWife

Okay!
(Recently found out I say that at the start of every conversation.)

If you’re new here…. Welcome. Welcome. We love new friends.

I’m Carley. I’m married to Coach. We have 2 children, Calla and Cart. We also have 2 Weims: Wynn and Nat. (As in “Win and “National Championship”) We are a tad over the top.

I’m a coach’s wife.
Mama.
Teacher.
Co-owner of a small business with my best Gem.

I have a tiny little home that we’ve outgrown, but it’s 2024 and….. yes. It’s 2024. We absolutely LOVE our location, this old house, and our neighbors. I honestly don’t think I could ever leave my front porch. However, I know the name of the game and I never say never. So I always say: I’m grateful for this chapter.

I’m all about RealLife and if I’m being honest….. seasons are really hard. I get it.

In the chaos of every season I like to cook dinners for my family in 20 minutes, spend 2 hours on a Thursday in my silent classroom after contract hours, wear pull on pants, find the best suits and fool the world into thinking they are work appropriate, and cheer for Coach’s team on Fridays. Most of all: I love cheering for you. And praying. Lots and lots of praying.

#RealLifeCoachWifeLife

One Hundred Percent

Something I wanted to do this year in 2024 was to step out of my comfort zone. Honestly, I have done a horrible job of that. I like comfort. I like safe. I thrive in the “normal flow” of life. So this morning I made a reel of me working out/ lifting weights and I said a prayer, took a deep breath, and hit post.

It was way out of my comfort zone. But, 2024.

And in a few hours I have received many messages and comments that I wasn’t really expecting.

What type of shorts are you wearing?

What are your current macros set at?

How long have you been lifting?

One that was the most frequently: How do you get up and workout in the morning? Aren’t you exhausted?

See, that was the point of the post. I am NOT a morning person. YES, I am absolutely exhausted from time to time. However, if I am going to work out at all, it has to be done in the morning. I can’t rearrange everyone’s schedule for me to go to the gym. So, 5am it is. I need my home to be in order, and my workout to not disturb that. So, 5am.

Which brings me to this: I can’t do anything else… if I am not 100% at home.

What?

I can’t be a good teacher that is prepared, thriving, and giving my all if my HOME is not 100%.

I can’t be a good small business owner, bringing content, keeping things in order, delivering a product, giving my all if my HOME is not 100%.

I can’t be a good friend, listening, loving, being someone that is fulfilling and not draining to be around, and giving my all if my HOME is not 100%.

I can’t be Carley…. giving my all to anything if my HOME is not 100%.

Coaches: You can be winning in every season: But if your HOME is not 100%…. that is a loss.

What’s 100% in our home?

Order. Structure. Calmness. Peace. Meals cooked. Dinner conversations. Family church services. Communication. Spending time together.

Several times recently I found myself losing my peace. I felt…. in a funk. I knew something was off. I was constantly playing referee between Cain children. I was snapping at Coach. I was falling behind in some assignments needing attention for a class. I had NO motivation to approach things. I had no motivation to create meals. This little corner of the field was neglected. I was meh. Things that usually bring me joy and help me feel my purpose, I found myself lacking interest.

I was exhausted. I was doing everything…. at about 20%, Home was not 100% Everything was lacking.

I can eat as healthy as possible. I can read all of the books. I can stay late on a Thursday and have every lesson planned and ready. I can have gems ready and content planned for days. I can be in every endorsement and extra school activity that is offered…. and look like life is THRIVING on the outside…. but if my home is not 100%…. then I am surviving.

So if you find yourself under a cloud and just not functioning at 100%, check your home.

My daily prayer is that our home is at 100 percent.

My Pool Bag

Summer is here. The daily 90* and higher temps are here. The Cain Crew…. lives in the pool/ waterpark/ ocean. I wanted a place to hold all of our pool bag favorites, so I made a list. I also noticed that lots of our favorite items are on major sale at the time of posting this.

(Just a reminder: I am paid a commission for sharing each link. These pennies are used in my classroom, to pay for this corner of the field, and allows me to share recipes and random thoughts. I thank you for the support.)

Calla wants you to know THESE are the best goggles made. 66% off currently.

My absolute favorite MOM swim top. LOVE LOVE LOVE the coverage. It is super comfortable.

Every kid loves these. I purchased two packs this year because last year they sold out.

We love these. I bought 4 because we always bring a friend.

This is what I use for the kids. I swear it is the best. NOT the spray. I love the lotion the most.

Add this for their faces.

This is what I wear on my face. In 2023 I spent some major time and pennies on my skincare. I LOVE this. It doesn’t make me breakout.

I try to never leave the house without a hat. Again, major work on my skincare in 2023.

Coach Cain wants everyone to know THIS is the best chair.

Calla has lived in these all summer. She says they are comfortable and wants another pair. She loves the pink.

I have been wearing these daily.

This. Spending the morning at the waterpark and the evening at the pool has us using towels and more towels. So I ordered this today to help dry our suits and towels.

Hours of beach time was spent with this toy set. It is small enough to throw in your bag and both Cain babies loved it.

Again, the Real Life Coach’s Wife Life Promise is to always share REAL LIFE items that I own, use, and love. The only item I have not put to use is the towel tree, but when it arrives Monday I am SO excited to use it.

I hope your pool season is full of wins!

What Are We Doing Today?

This morning it was 8:30am on a Saturday morning when Calla and Cart had gone through all of the daily tasks like breakfast, morning tv show, morning snack, playdoh, and were asking for a second snack… when Calla said: “Mama, what are we doing today that is fun. I’m ready to go.” I found my brain instantly thinking, “Oh, what are we doing fun today? I should load them up and take them to the park, but it is about to storm. We could go to Peachy Playtown…. but I really need to clean up the house and go to the grocery store.” I felt the guilt wave over me because it was about to rain, I didn’t really want to get dressed in real clothes. I had a list of house things that needed to be done. I just needed a day at home for my sanity on all other days that we are full speed.

“Calla, we are staying home this morning. You and Cart can play in your rooms, you can play in the living room, you can watch a movie, or you can help me clean up.” Instantly she starts with the, “But MAMA! I want to do something fun!”

Girl. Chill.

I’m not a bad mom for not planning a fun activity every single day. I am not a bad mom for planning an at home day on a Saturday to prep and plan for a week long vacation quickly approaching.

So today we stayed home.

And guess what…. they played for two hours with the toys they have. I heard them playing house and then playing grocery store. I got all of our laundry done and then put away. I got the house picked up and the grocery list made. I got the bathrooms clean. We took naps. We went to the grocery store. We played outside and Coach grilled steaks.

Everyone survived a day at home with nothing fun on the agenda. (Calla did have acting class from 1-4, so she really did have a fun activity.)

If you’re in the season of your children wanting a “Disney World” activity every single day…. it is PERFECTLY FINE to have a day at home. I promise, your children will make their own fun.

Real Life

I was recently asked to think of things to grab on Amazon that a mom would want that are less than $30. This was perfect because I just had a birthday and was given a few Amazon cards and those are my favorite. So I set out to find some things that I needed to get us spring ready. Here are the items I purchased or have purchased and found them under $30. The Amazon Spring Sale is happening today so I went back and added some items.

THIS is my most requested link and my most purchased item… like ever. It’s good. I am a size a size 10. I got the large. I also own the medium. I won’t tell you how many I own.

THIS top. I love the color and the sleeves are so perfect. I love a solid top with a fun statement from Two Hidden Gems. Plus, this top is less than $23. CCTM perfection.

THESE are on the way to me. I recently watched a video where a teacher took all of her winter sweaters and put them in one big bag then put the bag under her bed. Her closet size tripled because she had so much room. I need that in my life. Take my $12.

THIS floor lamp. $30?! I love a lamp and a chair and a book. It is 60% off. The quality is great.

THESE leggings. I have purchased them 7 times according to my Amazon account. They are great. Very Lulu dupe.Not every pair of leggings are squat proof… trust me. These are.

THIS is the best basket. I have 3 in my house and one in my classroom. It is HUGE. This price is amazing.

THIS is summer perfection. I’m telling you…. all of the super cute solid shirts with the Two Hidden Gems. You have a different style with every gem. Under $20.

I was told these are the BEST shorts. Levi’s is usually an expensive brand. However, my size is $15 today.

I have this in black. With the sale it is $19 so I ordered the blue.

I have the brown so I got the black. I LOVE them in the summer.

A $10 dress that I LIVE in in the summer.

A $7 tee that is so so so soft. I wear mine with all of the gems.

I use this daily in the kitchen. This is a great price.